Alsu | Trauma & Relationship Coaching | Emotional Healing on Instagram: "Sometimes when someone gets very upset because they didn’t receive an emotional reaction, it’s not really about the situation itself. For some people, emotional intensity equals connection. If the other person stays calm, it can feel like rejection, loss of control, or even abandonment. When you grow up in chaos, strong reactions feel familiar. Drama feels like proof that you matter. Emotional response feels like safety. So