They ask that contributions not be made anonymously. The email states that the sender wants to be able to “confirm” the ...
DEAR MISS MANNERS: A tenured colleague routinely solicits the faculty to contribute to group gifts. This colleague sends the requests not only to those of us with tenure, but also to subordinates ...
DEAR MISS MANNERS: Every year for our birthdays, my husband and I receive a gift from a business associate. Previously, it ...
An 81-year-old reader reflects on the tendency of some people to look for slights and questions whether it’s necessary to ...
GENTLE READER: Your partner is right about what passes for black tie these days. And while you each perfectly define a ...
DEAR MISS MANNERS: I’m hosting a party with my best friend. We used a social networking site as our form of invitations; it’s a really informal event. My best friend’s ex-girlfriend saw it and has ...
DEAR MISS MANNERS: My adult daughters learned etiquette from me. It was passed down from my mother. Somewhere along the line, the old etiquette has been forgotten and new manners have been invented by ...
Does the letter writer asking for specific hosting gifts create more of a burden for guests?